Devotional
You Can't Argue With Daddy
"Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it." — Psalm 127:1 (NKJV)
I once asked Ruth Graham a question I probably shouldn't have.
She was in town for a banquet, and I got a few minutes with her. I asked how her father, Billy Graham, one of the most well-known preachers in history, balanced ministry and family.
She looked at me and said, honestly, "He didn't. It's one of his greatest regrets."
Then she said something that hit me right in the chest: "How do you argue with Daddy when he's going out to do God's work?"
I've thought about that line a hundred times since.
There's a particular deception that gets people in ministry, but it's not limited to pastors. It's anyone who convinces themselves that the work they're doing for God exempts them from being present with the people God gave them.
The calendar fills up with kingdom stuff. Important stuff. Stuff that sounds so spiritual that nobody, not even your spouse, not even your kids, feels like they can push back. How do you argue with someone doing God's work?
But here's what Ruth Graham's honesty revealed: at the end of his life, Billy Graham didn't wish he'd preached more crusades. He wished he'd been home more.
The work won't miss you as much as you think it will. The mission will continue. Someone else will fill the gap. But your family only gets one you. And the season you're in right now, with the people in your home right now, you'll never get it back.
God can do more over your lifetime with a whole and healthy you than a depleted, absent version running on fumes and calling it faithfulness.
Presence matters more than perfection. And being there at the critical moment changes everything.
Prayer Prompt
Ask God to show you who in your life has been getting the leftovers of your time and energy. Then ask Him what one thing you could change this week to be more present with them.
Justin Franich
Justin Franich is a Teen Challenge graduate who overcame a meth addiction and has been clean since 2005. He spent over a decade leading Christ‑centered recovery programs and now serves as Executive Director of Shenandoah Valley Adult Teen Challenge, helping families find the right path forward and supporting people as they rebuild life after addiction.
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