STORIES WORTH TELLING

Articles, testimonies, and devotionals from the Christ-centered work of rebuilding after addiction. Written for families, people in recovery, and anyone walking this road.

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Justin Franich walking through the empty ministry building with a microphone and studio light in the background, black and white.
Addiction & Recovery

The Cost of Ministry Nobody Talks About

Twenty years of overdose calls, unanswered prayers, and friends who disappeared taught me the real cost of calling. Nobody puts that part in the brochure.

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Devotional

Living a Life of Gratitude When Everything in You Wants to Complain

Gratitude is not a mood. It's a muscle. And like most muscles, it only gets stronger when you actually use it. Ten lepers cried out for mercy and all ten got healed, but only one turned back to say thank you. The other nine followed instructions perfectly and missed the whole point.

Rob Grant and Justin Franich sitting together talking in an empty chapel during a podcast recording.
Addiction & Recovery

Moving Forward in Ministry After Loss

Ministry transition forced us to confront a hard question: are we honoring what God did, or camping out at a memorial stone and missing what He's doing next?

Woman in medical mask holding a premature baby in the NICU, tender moment of care and uncertainty
Devotional

Two Pounds, Two Ounces

The phone rang again. Another opportunity to say yes without knowing the outcome. Service isn't about seeing the ending before you start.

Family working together at a cotton candy booth during a Teen Challenge fundraiser event
Devotional

You Can't Argue With Daddy

Ruth Graham told me her father's greatest regret. Billy Graham wished he'd been home more. Your family only gets one you.

The original Brooklyn Teen Challenge Center building with trees and garden in front courtyard
Devotional

Cut Me Into a Thousand Pieces

Nicky Cruz threatened to cut David Wilkerson. His response: every piece would still say I love you. That's the love of Christ.

Young girl decorating a Christmas tree while holding a baby, warm glow of lights in a living room
Devotional

They Always Came Through

My parents said we're not getting you anything this year. But every Christmas morning, they came through. That's how hope works with God.

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Devotional

Met in the Road

The prodigal son had a speech prepared. But the father ran before he could finish. That's the heart of God toward you.

Two young girls walking on a grassy path at Antietam battlefield, following a group ahead on an autumn day
Devotional

Walking With You Before You Knew It

Jesus walked with the disciples to Emmaus before they recognized Him. He's walking with you too, even when you can't see Him.

Rocco shares his testimony of rebuilding after relapse, proving that setbacks don't have to be the end of the story.
Testimonies

Rocco's Story: Destroyed it all in 30 days

Rocco spent 17 years in addiction. He built 3.5 years of recovery, lost it in 30 days, then found his way back.

Teenage boy in grey jacket lying in hospital bed with IV line, looking into camera
Devotional

As You Lay There in Your Blood

Nobody stopped. But God passed by, saw you at your worst, and said one word: Live. That's how He sees you.

 Sunlight breaking through dark storm clouds over an open road.
Devotional

Faith in Hard Times: When the Dream Becomes a Nightmare

The dream becoming a nightmare doesn't mean God is done. It doesn't mean he forgot. It doesn't mean you heard wrong. Sometimes the nightmare is the setup for the envelope.

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For Families

How to Help an Addict Without Losing Yourself

When someone you love is drowning in addiction, your first instinct is to jump in after them. But here's what nobody tells you: you can drown trying to save someone. After 20 years in recovery ministry, I've learned that empathy means "I understand," not "I'll fix it." You can love someone deeply without losing yourself in the process.

Man with backpack standing at a doorway, looking back over his shoulder at a parking lot
Devotional

My Bags Were Packed

I had my bags packed to leave Teen Challenge. One brother stopped me at the door. He didn't lecture me. He just prayed.

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Devotional

When Your Light Goes Out

When your candle goes out, somebody else can light it for you. That's what the body of Christ is for.

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Ministry Updates

For the People Who Make the Call

80% of the calls we received at our residential program came from families, not the person struggling. So we rebuilt everything around that truth. Here's what's new at SVTC.info and JustinFranich.com.

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Devotional

God’s Timing Feels Thin Sometimes

Sometimes the phrases we reach for feel thin. Not false... just thin. This is what it sounds like to believe God has a plan and still sit in the ache of timing, loss, and questions that don't resolve.

Soft lamplight on an unmade bed in the quiet hours before dawn.
Devotional

A Prayer for Peace of Mind When You Can't Sleep

If you're searching for peace at 2am, you're not alone. The answer might not be trying harder or faking it better. It might be laying something down.

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Devotional

What Does the Bible Say About Second Chances?

The father wasn't waiting at the end of the driveway with his arms crossed. He was running down the road before the apology was finished. The robe is waiting. So is the ring. So are the sandals.

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Devotional

Letting Go and Letting God: A Prayer for Surrender

You're white-knuckling something right now. Something that's already wilting in your grip. What if the thing you're afraid to lose isn't worth keeping anyway?

A single figure standing at the edge of a vast open field under an endless sky.
Devotional

God Is in Control: Trusting Him When the Math Doesn't Work

The prodigal who's been gone for years. The addiction that won't break. The marriage that feels beyond repair. Is his arm too short? Pray like you believe it isn't.

Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge announcing a transition from residential programs to a community-based recovery model
Ministry Updates

The Future Of Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge

Over two decades after its founding, Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge is transitioning from residential programming back to a community-based recovery model rooted in its original mission.

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Addiction & Recovery

Aaron Gordon: Finding Identity, Overcoming Low Expectations

Aaron Gordon grew up in Washington, DC when it was known as the murder capital of the world-and he wasn't "supposed" to make it. Instead, he defied every expectation, graduated from West Point, and built a military career. At 54, he's still discovering the layers of identity and purpose God placed in him.

Portrait of Rev. John Franich seated at a table in a warm studio setting
Ministry Updates

My Father Helped a Few People Get Their Lives Back

A tribute to my father, Rev. John Franich founder of Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge and the quiet, faithful obedience that helped break a cycle in our family and restore hundreds of lives.

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Addiction & Recovery

God's Peace vs. World's Peace: Why Sobriety Feels Restless

You did the hard work-got clean, rebuilt trust, started making progress. So why do you still feel anxious and restless? This post breaks down the difference between the world's peace and God's peace, and why only one can actually restore your soul.

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Addiction & Recovery

I Got Clean, But That Wasn't the Hard Part

A personal account of early addiction, the moment of collapse that led to help, and how identity and discipleship shaped life after getting clean.

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Addiction & Recovery

Breaking Free From Pornography Addiction: Wade’s Story

Wade shares his journey from childhood exposure to pornography through years of bondage and into lasting freedom through Scripture, fasting, and spiritual warfare.

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Addiction & Recovery

Rebuilding Life After Addiction: A Guide to Freedom

An overview of the Rebuilding Life After Addiction framework and the Prodigal Son roadmap of identity, authority, and mission beyond sobriety.

Matt Colvin discussing the journey from sobriety to freedom in Christ, moving from willpower to surrender and grace
Addiction & Recovery

WHEN SOBRIETY ISN'T ENOUGH: THE JOURNEY FROM CLEAN TO FREE

Many people reach sobriety yet remain trapped in shame, performance, and spiritual exhaustion. This article explores the deeper journey from being clean to experiencing true freedom through grace, surrender, and relationship with Christ.

Person sitting in dark room during early recovery experiencing physical and emotional pain of withdrawal and healing
Addiction & Recovery

When Recovery Hurts More Than Addiction

Nobody told me recovery might hurt worse than addiction. At 3 AM with drug dreams and racing thoughts, I was mad at myself, mad at everyone, and angry at God. The pain almost broke me before I realized it was actually healing me.

Two people on opposite sides of wooden fence, hand reaching but not crossing, love within boundaries
For Families

Setting Boundaries for Recovering Addicts: A Family Guide

How to welcome your loved one home from treatment without enabling them-practical wisdom on communication, trust, and treating your adult child like an adult

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For Families

Grace For The Older Brother In Recovery

A reflection on the older brother in Luke 15 and how faithfulness, resentment, and grace often collide in recovery families.

Shane Curtis shares his testimony of finding freedom through Teen Challenge after a kayak accident left him alone in the Virginia woods overnight.
Testimonies

Shane's Story: Alone in the Woods, Then Found

D1 athlete Shane Curtis hit rock bottom alone in the woods. Then Teen Challenge changed everything.

Man standing at a workbench in morning light, symbolizing the intentional daily work of building systems for long-term recovery.
Addiction & Recovery

The Systems That Keep You Free: 33 Years of Recovery

Discover the practical systems that sustain long-term freedom after addiction. 33 years of combined recovery experience reveals what actually works.

Father and adult son walking together down a sunlit tree-lined path, father's hand on son's shoulder
Addiction & Recovery

Your Past Wasn't Wasted: God Redeems Your Story

What you lost to addiction, God can restore through your children. Here is how your story becomes their inheritance.

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Addiction & Recovery

Life After Rehab: What Happens When Treatment Ends

Most people relapse after treatment, not during it. This article explores what the first year of life after rehab actually looks like and why sobriety is only the starting point.

ohn Selby shares how faith, obedience, and making restitution for his past helped him rebuild his life after Teen Challenge.
Testimonies

John's Story: Paying Back What Was Stolen

After felony charges, a car wreck, and $56,000 in restitution, John Selby rebuilt his life one act of obedience at a time.

Parent standing at window looking out at children playing, bathed in soft light, contemplating the right moment
Addiction & Recovery

When NOT to Tell Your Kids About Your Addiction

Sometimes sharing your addiction story with your kids does more harm than good. Here is how to know if you are ready, and what to do if you are not.

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Addiction & Recovery

Should You Tell Your Kids About Your Addiction?

How much should you tell your kids about your past? A guide for parents in recovery on sharing your story wisely, protecting innocence, and building trust.

A worried middle-aged mom searches late at night on her laptop in a cozy home office, looking for faith-based recovery program options with hope and determination
For Families

How to Choose a Faith-Based Recovery Program: Questions Families Should Ask

When your family is in crisis, choosing the right faith-based recovery program feels overwhelming. This guide shares the key questions to ask and red flags to watch for, based on 20+ years of real experience helping families in Virginia.

A young man stands on a porch at golden hour in a quiet Virginia backyard, looking ahead with quiet hope and reflection after recovery
For Families

What Happens After Teen Challenge? Life After Graduation

Graduation from Teen Challenge is a huge milestone, but it's just the beginning. Learn what families can realistically expect in the months and years after-reintegration challenges, building new rhythms, handling relapse with grace, and long-term hope.

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Addiction & Recovery

Why Avoiding Conflict Isn't Keeping the Peace

Silence isn't peace. It's permission. Learn why confronting sin in your brother is the most loving thing you can do.

A woman standing calmly at a doorway, her hand on the frame, choosing not to step through—representing boundaries held with grace
Addiction & Recovery

Forgiveness Doesn't Mean Tolerance: What Christians Miss

You can forgive someone and still set boundaries. Understanding the difference between releasing bitterness and inviting harm back in.

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Addiction & Recovery

Why Forgiveness Without Confrontation Isn't Love

Real forgiveness requires uncomfortable conversations. Learn why avoiding confrontation keeps both you and your brother stuck in sin.

A thoughtful young woman sits on her couch in a warm Virginia living room, reading on her phone with a soft smile of realization, surrounded by family photos
For Families

Common Myths About Teen Challenge Programs

Families hear the same myths about Teen Challenge programs again and again. Here's the honest truth behind the most common ones-from "it's only for teens" to "graduates always relapse"-based on decades of real experience.

Woman sitting alone at a kitchen table with coffee, looking out the window in quiet reflection about family decisions.
For Families

What Does Enabling Mean?

What does enabling mean? Learn how to recognize enabling behaviors and redirect your love toward support that actually helps.

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For Families

How to Overcome Offenses

When your loved one breaks their promise again, how do you avoid bitterness? Learn why offenses are inevitable but being offended is a choice-and how Joseph's story shows us the path to forgiveness.

Ben Fuller Christian worship leader and recording artist sharing testimony of freedom from cocaine addiction on Rebuilding Life After Addiction podcast
Addiction & Recovery

Ben Fuller Testimony: From Cocaine Addiction to Worship

On paper, Ben Fuller had everything going for him. Captain of the football team. A work ethic that could outpace anyone his age. A childhood on a beautiful Vermont dairy farm surrounded by mountains, early mornings, and honest labor. But inside, he was drowning.

Men sitting in an outdoor circle with Bibles during a morning study session at a faith-based recovery program.
For Families

Christian Rehab Centers

Exploring Christian rehab centers? Learn what to look for, questions to ask, and how to find a program that actually works.

Ben Fuller on stage with arms outstretched during a worship concert in Winchester, Virginia
Ministry Updates

Ben Fuller at Winchester Church of God: More Than a Concert

750 people packed Winchester Church of God for a night with Ben Fuller. The altar stayed open from the first song to the last. This wasn't a concert-it was ministry.

Two women sitting close together on a couch, holding hands during a serious family conversation about addiction recovery.
For Families

What Is an Intervention? Meaning, Definition & Family Guide

What is an intervention? Learn what really happens, when your family needs one, and how to approach it with wisdom and love.

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For Families

Questions to Ask Before Enrolling in a Teen Challenge Program

Choosing a Teen Challenge program is a big decision. Use this practical checklist of 30 essential questions-covering program length, faith integration, family involvement, costs, and aftercare-to help families make an informed choice.

A split kitchen counter comparing whole foods on the left with processed junk food scattered on the right, illustrating the contrast between healthy and addictive eating patterns.
Addiction & Recovery

Food Addiction Is Real. Here's How to Fight Back.

We'll preach about alcohol and warn our kids about drugs. But food? That's the third rail nobody wants to touch. Except your brain can't tell the difference between sugar and cocaine. Here's how to break the cycle.

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Addiction & Recovery

What Does the Bible Say About Addiction?

What does the Bible say about addiction? Explore key bible verses about addiction, biblical perspective on bondage and idolatry, and the promise of freedom through Christ for recovering addicts.

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Addiction & Recovery

Faith-Based Recovery Programs: What Families Need to Know

Faith-based recovery programs approach addiction differently than secular options. Learn what makes them unique, what to expect, and how to find the right program for your loved one.

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Devotional

Good Bible Verses for Depression

When ministry was thriving and family was healthy, depression hit hardest. I hid upstairs during my daughter's birthday party, unable to face the joy below. These 20 Bible verses became lifelines when well-meaning advice failed and shame crushed harder.

Women at Teen Challenge in Virginia
Addiction & Recovery

Teen Challenge for Women in Virginia: What to Know

A firsthand account of launching and leading a Teen Challenge women's home in Virginia, including daily life, challenges, and long-term impact on families.

Blake Koteita, owner of Harvest Table Dayton coffee shop, shares his testimony of faith-based recovery from addiction
Addiction & Recovery

Eight Years Between the Encounter and the Freedom

Blake Koteita had a life-changing encounter with the Holy Spirit in 2009. He didn't get fully free from porn until 2017. His story tells a truth we don't hear enough: deliverance and discipleship are not the same thing.

Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge entrance sign surrounded by trees and flowers
Addiction & Recovery

What Is Teen Challenge?

Teen Challenge is the largest and oldest faith-based addiction recovery program in the world. Here's what it is, how it started, how it works, and whether it might be right for your loved one.

Josh Baldwin leading worship at Destiny Family Center with screens displaying "There is no sound louder than a captive set free"
Ministry Updates

Two Nights with Josh Baldwin: A Shenandoah Valley Worship Experience

Two churches. Two nights. Nearly 1,000 people. Josh Baldwin led worship across the Shenandoah Valley-and one of those nights brought me back to the church where I was baptized twenty years ago.

A man studying with a book open during a class at Teen Challenge
Addiction & Recovery

Adult Teen Challenge

Don't let the name fool you-most Teen Challenge residents are adults. Learn how Adult Teen Challenge works, who it serves, and how it compares to other rehab options.

Justin and Ashley Franich standing together representing their return to ministry leadership at Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge
Ministry Updates

Returning to Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge

After years away, Ashley and I are returning to Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge as Directors. The place where we served from 2007-2019 shaped us, and now God is bringing us full circle to continue the legacy my father built.

A man sitting on a rock ledge overlooking the Shenandoah Valley mountains
Addiction & Recovery

Setbacks in Recovery: What to Do When Progress Stalls

Setbacks happen in recovery. A setback doesn't mean failure-it means you're human. Here's what to do when progress stalls, whether you're the one struggling or the one watching someone you love.

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Addiction & Recovery

Marriage in Recovery Ministry: Ashley Franich’s Story

Can a marriage thrive when one spouse comes from addiction and the other doesn't? Ashley Franich shares 15 years of saying "yes" to God-from marrying someone fresh out of Teen Challenge to leading women through recovery to foster care and beyond

Two chairs facing each other symbolizing restoring broken relationships after addiction
Addiction & Recovery

Biblical Steps to Restore Broken Relationships

Addiction destroys trust in drops and buckets. Here are 5 biblical steps to rebuild what was broken, even when it feels impossible.

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Addiction & Recovery

How to Move Beyond Your Broken Past

Struggling with a lack of hope while dealing with a loved one's addiction? Discover how God can transform your broken pieces into a beautiful masterpiece and why accepting Christ's forgiveness is the first step toward moving forward.

Jordan and Charlcie Robinson, both Teen Challenge graduates, now married and serving together in ministry.
Testimonies

Jordan and Charlcie's Story

Jordan and Charlcie both graduated SVTC, got married, and now serve in ministry together. A redemption love story.

A father holds his young child's hand as they walk together down a dirt path toward a sunset, symbolizing the journey of fatherhood and generational legacy.
Addiction & Recovery

Being the Dad You Never Had

Nobody teaches you how to be a father when you never had one. You're building the plane while flying it. But your kids don't need a perfect dad. They need a present one. Here's how to break the cycle.

Two women sitting together on a porch swing, one comforting the other during a difficult conversation about a family member's addiction.
For Families

How to Help a Loved One with Addiction

A practical guide for families navigating a loved one's addiction. Learn what helps, what hurts, and how to find support.

A middle-aged couple stands beside their car on a peaceful Virginia countryside road at sunrise, looking toward the horizon with quiet hope and relief
Addiction & Recovery

Faith-Based Recovery in Virginia: Options and How SVTC Helps

Virginia offers strong faith-based recovery programs, especially through Adult & Teen Challenge centers. Learn about the options across the state and how SVTC provides honest referrals, family support, and guidance-no pressure, no beds to fill.

Rob Reynolds sharing his testimony of freedom from addiction
Addiction & Recovery

How to Prevent Relapse: The Real Secret Nobody Talks About

Rob Reynolds was a 17-year addict until a prison encounter with Jesus changed everything. Fourteen years later he has never relapsed. This is the real secret most recovery conversations avoid: identity, renewal, and a living relationship with Christ.

Faith-based recovery and long-term transformation after addiction
Addiction & Recovery

Teen Challenge Success Rate: The Honest Answer

Teen Challenge success rate depends on how you define success. Here's the honest truth about outcomes, relapse, and what actually determines long-term change.

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Addiction & Recovery

Teen Challenge Cost in Virginia: Is It Free?

Teen Challenge doesn't cost what rehab costs. Some centers are free, most are heavily donor-supported, and many families pay far less than they expect. Here's what to know about monthly fees, scholarships, insurance, and what you're actually signing up for.

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Addiction & Recovery

Teen Challenge Virginia: Programs, Cost & How to Get In (2026 Guide)

Teen Challenge Virginia programs for men and women. Learn about cost, locations, admissions, and how SVTC helps families find the right faith-based recovery option.

Grandparent caring for grandchildren while navigating the challenges and emotional weight of a child’s addiction
For Families

Raising Grandchildren When Your Child Is Addicted

You didn't sign up for this. But here you are, raising your grandchildren while your child battles addiction. Here's how to find strength, hope, and grace for the journey.

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Addiction & Recovery

Adult Teen Challenge vs Prison: Why Faith-Based Recovery Works

Prison punishes addiction. It doesn't heal it. With a 60-70% recidivism rate, incarceration fails to address the spiritual brokenness at the root of substance abuse. Adult & Teen Challenge offers a different path-one that transforms lives through faith, community, and long-term support.

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Addiction & Recovery

A Conversation with Eddie Jame Minsistries

A raw and honest conversation with the team from Eddie James Ministries about calling, obedience, addiction, trauma, and the real cost of following God. This episode explores why sobriety is only the beginning, how accountability and submission lead to lasting freedom, and how God redeems brokenness into purpose.

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Addiction & Recovery

Six Months Without Smoking… Then I Blew It

Two pulls off a cigarette after six months clean. It wasn't about nicotine-it was about breaking agreement with a master that had ruled my life for years. Confession brought mercy. And I've never smoked since.

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For Families

How to Renew Your Hope After Losing It

Hope deferred makes the heart sick-not discouraged, sick. When all your energy funnels into one person who keeps rejecting help, hope drains away. Sometimes God restores hope not by changing them, but by widening your world again.

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For Families

When Your Loved One’s Addiction Ruins Your Summer Vacation

You were counting down the days. Then it happened-a broken promise, that familiar look. What was meant to restore you now feels stolen. Speaking truth in love means holding hope and honesty at the same time.

A man kneeling in surrender on a prison chapel floor with a cross on the wall behind him
Addiction & Recovery

Cookies With Christ: How God Met Me in Prison

I went for the free food. I stayed because for the first time in my life, I felt the weight lift off my chest and I could finally breathe.

A man sitting alone and isolated in the back pew of a church while the congregation faces forward
For Families

The Church Didn't Know What to Do With Me

I showed up high. I showed up hungover. I showed up for ten years on Christmas and Easter. And not once did anyone tell me there was an answer.

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For Families

How to Help a Recovering Addict

You've tried everything. Talked, pleaded, set boundaries, prayed. The most powerful help isn't fixing the problem-it's believing for them when they can't believe for themselves, restoring their purpose, and helping them release guilt.

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For Families

How to Handle Addicts Who Only Care About Themselves

There's a particular exhaustion that comes from loving someone who can't see past themselves. You try to help and still end up being the problem. The answer isn't rescuing harder-it's leading with strength.

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For Families

When the Confrontation Goes South

You finally said something. And it exploded. Anger, blame, withdrawal-different reactions, same purpose: control. When intervention blows up, you need boundaries. And boundaries require clarity about what's yours to carry.

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Addiction & Recovery

Should I Date During Recovery?

No one wants to be alone. But a good thing at the wrong time can become destructive. Dating in recovery comes down to two questions: who and when. Get them both right, and relationships become gift instead of risk.

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Addiction & Recovery

Sustaining Sobriety Beyond Rehab

The two hardest words for someone leaving rehab aren't "drugs" or "temptation"-they're "what now?" Long-term sobriety isn't sustained by rules alone. It requires exchange: old habits for new, old goals for new, old activities for new.

Holiday family gathering with empty chair representing a loved one struggling with addiction
For Families

How to Tell If My Loved One Needs a Program

The holidays can make addiction impossible to ignore. But knowing when a program is necessary-and when it's actually possible-requires asking the right questions about both need and timing.

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For Families

How to Take Care of Yourself When a Loved One Is in Rehab

When the person you love enters a program, you finally have margin. For the first time in a long time, you're not fighting fires. What you do with that space matters-because they're not the only one who needs healing.

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For Families

How to Cope with Being Apart from My Loved One

Distance hurts-whether it's miles of separation or the emotional absence of someone living under the same roof. Both situations ache deeply. But neither one is hopeless.

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For Families

Am I Crazy for Supporting the Addict I Love?

Friends say to quit. Family says to move on. They call you crazy for still hoping. But holding onto faith, hope, and love-the things Scripture says last forever-isn't foolish. It's foundation.

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For Families

The Hidden Meaning of Grace

We use the word "grace" so often it loses weight. But understanding what grace actually contains-free, true, and authentic-changes how we love someone through addiction without enabling destruction.

Edgar's transformation through Teen Challenge - from addiction to recovery over several years
Testimonies

Edgar's Story: From 26 Detoxes to Overseeing 350 Men in Recovery

After 26 detoxes, 6 inpatient programs, and state prison, Edgar found Shenandoah Valley Adult & Teen Challenge. Today he oversees 350 men as Disciplinarian and Intake Manager at Pennsylvania Adult & Teen Challenge.

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For Families

Whose Fault Is Their Addiction, Anyway?

When an addict says "you made me do this," they're using guilt as leverage. But accusation does not equal truth. You are not responsible for another person's decision to use-and you never were.

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For Families

The Fatherlessness Crisis Is Fueling Everything Else

Behind the addiction epidemic, the identity confusion, and the rise of young men looking for answers in all the wrong places, there's one common thread: missing fathers.

A young man sitting alone on a park bench at dusk, isolated and disconnected
Addiction & Recovery

Weak Men Are More Dangerous Than Strong Men

We've been told that toxic masculinity is the problem. But the real threat isn't the strong man. It's the man with no identity, no confidence, and no one speaking into his life.

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For Families

To Testify or Not to Testify?

Should you wait until the struggle is over to share your story? Like a drowning person being thrown a lifejacket, sometimes testimony isn't the reward for victory-it's part of how victory comes.

Three men in Teen Challenge Freedom From Addiction shirts standing outside the Shenandoah Valley facility
Addiction & Recovery

Teen Challenge for Men: What Families Need to Know

Looking for a faith-based recovery program for men? Learn what Teen Challenge offers, how it works, and how to know if it's right for your son, husband, or loved one.

A person sitting alone in a quiet church sanctuary with afternoon light streaming through stained glass windows
Addiction & Recovery

Why the Church Should Be the Safest Place to Struggle

The church was meant to be a hospital for sinners, not a museum for saints. So why are so many believers terrified to admit they're not okay?

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Addiction & Recovery

Social Media Discipleship Is Making Us Shallow

We have more Christian content at our fingertips than any generation in history. And it might be making us spiritually weaker, not stronger.

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Addiction & Recovery

The Win-Win Testimony

When we share the freedom we found in Christ from addiction, something powerful happens-not just for the person hearing it, but for us too. Testimony gives meaning to our pain and restores purpose to our story.

A man sitting vulnerably on church steps while a friend offers support with a hand on his shoulder
Addiction & Recovery

We're Only As Sick As Our Secrets: Why Transparency Sets You Free

The things we hide hold power over us. But when we drag our struggles into the light with people we trust, shame loses its grip and real healing begins.

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Addiction & Recovery

Teen Challenge Donations: Where Your Money Goes

Teen Challenge donations fund time. Time for someone to stabilize, for truth to take root, for discipleship to form a real man or woman of God.

A solitary figure sits in an empty church pew, head bowed, as colored light from a stained glass window falls across the sanctuary, representing the isolation of church hurt and the possibility of healing.
Addiction & Recovery

What Healing From Church Hurt Actually Looks Like

Church is supposed to be the safest place to struggle. So what happens when the church becomes the wound? Healing requires naming what happened, getting outside help, and the terrifying decision to trust again.

Woman walking toward golden light leaving broken chains behind symbolizing freedom from addiction identity
For Families

The Most Dangerous Thing We Say About Addiction

The phrase "once an addict, always an addict" gets repeated so often it's treated like settled fact. But what does that statement actually do to someone trying to rebuild their life-and does it line up with Scripture?

Courtney's before and after photos showing her transformation through Teen Challenge and faith in God.
Testimonies

Courtney's Story: 23 Felonies Dismissed

Courtney went from 23 felony charges and a jail cell to freedom. Her story proves God can restore what addiction destroys.

Parent and child holding hands across table in supportive conversation about addiction recovery
For Families

How to Help Someone With Addiction: A Family Guide

A complete guide for families supporting someone through addiction. Learn what actually helps, when treatment is needed, how to set boundaries, and what real recovery looks like.

Justin Hurst and Justin Franich after recording a podcast episode
Testimonies

Justin's Story: How Teen Challenge Restored My Life

After addiction destroyed his family and left him homeless, Justin called his mom and entered Teen Challenge. Now he's married with three daughters, living the life God paved for him.