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The phone rang again. Another opportunity to say yes without knowing the outcome. Service isn't about seeing the ending before you start.
100+ articles, episodes, and guides for families, church leaders, and anyone walking this road.

The phone rang again. Another opportunity to say yes without knowing the outcome. Service isn't about seeing the ending before you start.

Ruth Graham told me her father's greatest regret. Billy Graham wished he'd been home more. Your family only gets one you.

Nicky Cruz threatened to cut David Wilkerson. His response: every piece would still say I love you. That's the love of Christ.

My parents said we're not getting you anything this year. But every Christmas morning, they came through. That's how hope works with God.

The prodigal son had a speech prepared. But the father ran before he could finish. That's the heart of God toward you.

Jesus walked with the disciples to Emmaus before they recognized Him. He's walking with you too, even when you can't see Him.

Rocco spent 17 years in addiction. He built 3.5 years of recovery, lost it in 30 days, then found his way back.

Nobody stopped. But God passed by, saw you at your worst, and said one word: Live. That's how He sees you.

The dream becoming a nightmare doesn't mean God is done. It doesn't mean he forgot. It doesn't mean you heard wrong. Sometimes the nightmare is the setup for the envelope.

When someone you love is drowning in addiction, your first instinct is to jump in after them. But here's what nobody tells you: you can drown trying to save someone. After 20 years in recovery ministry, I've learned that empathy means "I understand," not "I'll fix it." You can love someone deeply without losing yourself in the process.

I had my bags packed to leave Teen Challenge. One brother stopped me at the door. He didn't lecture me. He just prayed.

When your candle goes out, somebody else can light it for you. That's what the body of Christ is for.

80% of the calls we received at our residential program came from families, not the person struggling. So we rebuilt everything around that truth. Here's what's new at SVTC.info and JustinFranich.com.

Sometimes the phrases we reach for feel thin. Not false... just thin. This is what it sounds like to believe God has a plan and still sit in the ache of timing, loss, and questions that don't resolve.

If you're searching for peace at 2am, you're not alone. The answer might not be trying harder or faking it better. It might be laying something down.

The father wasn't waiting at the end of the driveway with his arms crossed. He was running down the road before the apology was finished. The robe is waiting. So is the ring. So are the sandals.

You're white-knuckling something right now. Something that's already wilting in your grip. What if the thing you're afraid to lose isn't worth keeping anyway?

The prodigal who's been gone for years. The addiction that won't break. The marriage that feels beyond repair. Is his arm too short? Pray like you believe it isn't.

Over two decades after its founding, Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge is transitioning from residential programming back to a community-based recovery model rooted in its original mission.

Aaron Gordon grew up in Washington, DC when it was known as the murder capital of the world-and he wasn't "supposed" to make it. Instead, he defied every expectation, graduated from West Point, and built a military career. At 54, he's still discovering the layers of identity and purpose God placed in him.

A tribute to my father, Rev. John Franich founder of Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge and the quiet, faithful obedience that helped break a cycle in our family and restore hundreds of lives.

You did the hard work-got clean, rebuilt trust, started making progress. So why do you still feel anxious and restless? This post breaks down the difference between the world's peace and God's peace, and why only one can actually restore your soul.

A personal account of early addiction, the moment of collapse that led to help, and how identity and discipleship shaped life after getting clean.

Wade shares his journey from childhood exposure to pornography through years of bondage and into lasting freedom through Scripture, fasting, and spiritual warfare.

An overview of the Rebuilding Life After Addiction framework and the Prodigal Son roadmap of identity, authority, and mission beyond sobriety.

Many people reach sobriety yet remain trapped in shame, performance, and spiritual exhaustion. This article explores the deeper journey from being clean to experiencing true freedom through grace, surrender, and relationship with Christ.

Nobody told me recovery might hurt worse than addiction. At 3 AM with drug dreams and racing thoughts, I was mad at myself, mad at everyone, and angry at God. The pain almost broke me before I realized it was actually healing me.

How to welcome your loved one home from treatment without enabling them-practical wisdom on communication, trust, and treating your adult child like an adult

A reflection on the older brother in Luke 15 and how faithfulness, resentment, and grace often collide in recovery families.

D1 athlete Shane Curtis hit rock bottom alone in the woods. Then Teen Challenge changed everything.

Discover the practical systems that sustain long-term freedom after addiction. 33 years of combined recovery experience reveals what actually works.

What you lost to addiction, God can restore through your children. Here is how your story becomes their inheritance.

Most people relapse after treatment, not during it. This article explores what the first year of life after rehab actually looks like and why sobriety is only the starting point.

After felony charges, a car wreck, and $56,000 in restitution, John Selby rebuilt his life one act of obedience at a time.

Sometimes sharing your addiction story with your kids does more harm than good. Here is how to know if you are ready, and what to do if you are not.

How much should you tell your kids about your past? A guide for parents in recovery on sharing your story wisely, protecting innocence, and building trust.

When your family is in crisis, choosing the right faith-based recovery program feels overwhelming. This guide shares the key questions to ask and red flags to watch for, based on 20+ years of real experience helping families in Virginia.

Graduation from Teen Challenge is a huge milestone, but it's just the beginning. Learn what families can realistically expect in the months and years after-reintegration challenges, building new rhythms, handling relapse with grace, and long-term hope.

Silence isn't peace. It's permission. Learn why confronting sin in your brother is the most loving thing you can do.

You can forgive someone and still set boundaries. Understanding the difference between releasing bitterness and inviting harm back in.

Real forgiveness requires uncomfortable conversations. Learn why avoiding confrontation keeps both you and your brother stuck in sin.

Families hear the same myths about Teen Challenge programs again and again. Here's the honest truth behind the most common ones-from "it's only for teens" to "graduates always relapse"-based on decades of real experience.

What does enabling mean? Learn how to recognize enabling behaviors and redirect your love toward support that actually helps.

When your loved one breaks their promise again, how do you avoid bitterness? Learn why offenses are inevitable but being offended is a choice-and how Joseph's story shows us the path to forgiveness.

On paper, Ben Fuller had everything going for him. Captain of the football team. A work ethic that could outpace anyone his age. A childhood on a beautiful Vermont dairy farm surrounded by mountains, early mornings, and honest labor. But inside, he was drowning.

Exploring Christian rehab centers? Learn what to look for, questions to ask, and how to find a program that actually works.

750 people packed Winchester Church of God for a night with Ben Fuller. The altar stayed open from the first song to the last. This wasn't a concert-it was ministry.

What is an intervention? Learn what really happens, when your family needs one, and how to approach it with wisdom and love.

Choosing a Teen Challenge program is a big decision. Use this practical checklist of 30 essential questions-covering program length, faith integration, family involvement, costs, and aftercare-to help families make an informed choice.

We'll preach about alcohol and warn our kids about drugs. But food? That's the third rail nobody wants to touch. Except your brain can't tell the difference between sugar and cocaine. Here's how to break the cycle.

The Bible doesn't use the word "addiction," but it has a lot to say about bondage, idolatry, and freedom. Here's what Scripture teaches about substance abuse and the path to real transformation.

Faith-based recovery programs approach addiction differently than secular options. Learn what makes them unique, what to expect, and how to find the right program for your loved one.

When ministry was thriving and family was healthy, depression hit hardest. I hid upstairs during my daughter's birthday party, unable to face the joy below. These 20 Bible verses became lifelines when well-meaning advice failed and shame crushed harder.

A firsthand account of launching and leading a Teen Challenge women's home in Virginia, including daily life, challenges, and long-term impact on families.

Blake Koteita had a life-changing encounter with the Holy Spirit in 2009. He didn't get fully free from porn until 2017. His story tells a truth we don't hear enough: deliverance and discipleship are not the same thing.

Teen Challenge is the largest and oldest faith-based addiction recovery program in the world. Here's what it is, how it started, how it works, and whether it might be right for your loved one.

Two churches. Two nights. Nearly 1,000 people. Josh Baldwin led worship across the Shenandoah Valley-and one of those nights brought me back to the church where I was baptized twenty years ago.

Don't let the name fool you-most Teen Challenge residents are adults. Learn how Adult Teen Challenge works, who it serves, and how it compares to other rehab options.

After years away, Ashley and I are returning to Shenandoah Valley Teen Challenge as Directors. The place where we served from 2007-2019 shaped us, and now God is bringing us full circle to continue the legacy my father built.

Setbacks happen in recovery. A setback doesn't mean failure-it means you're human. Here's what to do when progress stalls, whether you're the one struggling or the one watching someone you love.

Can a marriage thrive when one spouse comes from addiction and the other doesn't? Ashley Franich shares 15 years of saying "yes" to God-from marrying someone fresh out of Teen Challenge to leading women through recovery to foster care and beyond

Addiction leaves deep relational wounds, but Scripture offers a clear path toward healing. This article outlines five biblical steps for restoring broken relationships through humility, boundaries, forgiveness, and patient faithfulness.

Struggling with a lack of hope while dealing with a loved one's addiction? Discover how God can transform your broken pieces into a beautiful masterpiece and why accepting Christ's forgiveness is the first step toward moving forward.

Jordan and Charlcie both graduated SVTC, got married, and now serve in ministry together. A redemption love story.

Nobody teaches you how to be a father when you never had one. You're building the plane while flying it. But your kids don't need a perfect dad. They need a present one. Here's how to break the cycle.

A practical guide for families navigating a loved one's addiction. Learn what helps, what hurts, and how to find support.

Virginia offers strong faith-based recovery programs, especially through Adult & Teen Challenge centers. Learn about the options across the state and how SVTC provides honest referrals, family support, and guidance-no pressure, no beds to fill.

Rob Reynolds was a 17-year addict until a prison encounter with Jesus changed everything. Fourteen years later he has never relapsed. This is the real secret most recovery conversations avoid: identity, renewal, and a living relationship with Christ.

Teen Challenge success rate depends on how you define success. Here's the honest truth about outcomes, relapse, and what actually determines long-term change.

Teen Challenge doesn't cost what rehab costs. Some centers are free, most are heavily donor-supported, and many families pay far less than they expect. Here's what to know about monthly fees, scholarships, insurance, and what you're actually signing up for.

Teen Challenge Virginia programs for men and women. Learn about cost, locations, admissions, and how SVTC helps families find the right faith-based recovery option.

You didn't sign up for this. But here you are, raising your grandchildren while your child battles addiction. Here's how to find strength, hope, and grace for the journey.

Prison punishes addiction. It doesn't heal it. With a 60-70% recidivism rate, incarceration fails to address the spiritual brokenness at the root of substance abuse. Adult & Teen Challenge offers a different path-one that transforms lives through faith, community, and long-term support.

A raw and honest conversation with the team from Eddie James Ministries about calling, obedience, addiction, trauma, and the real cost of following God. This episode explores why sobriety is only the beginning, how accountability and submission lead to lasting freedom, and how God redeems brokenness into purpose.

Two pulls off a cigarette after six months clean. It wasn't about nicotine-it was about breaking agreement with a master that had ruled my life for years. Confession brought mercy. And I've never smoked since.

Hope deferred makes the heart sick-not discouraged, sick. When all your energy funnels into one person who keeps rejecting help, hope drains away. Sometimes God restores hope not by changing them, but by widening your world again.

You were counting down the days. Then it happened-a broken promise, that familiar look. What was meant to restore you now feels stolen. Speaking truth in love means holding hope and honesty at the same time.

I went for the free food. I stayed because for the first time in my life, I felt the weight lift off my chest and I could finally breathe.

I showed up high. I showed up hungover. I showed up for ten years on Christmas and Easter. And not once did anyone tell me there was an answer.

You've tried everything. Talked, pleaded, set boundaries, prayed. The most powerful help isn't fixing the problem-it's believing for them when they can't believe for themselves, restoring their purpose, and helping them release guilt.

There's a particular exhaustion that comes from loving someone who can't see past themselves. You try to help and still end up being the problem. The answer isn't rescuing harder-it's leading with strength.

You finally said something. And it exploded. Anger, blame, withdrawal-different reactions, same purpose: control. When intervention blows up, you need boundaries. And boundaries require clarity about what's yours to carry.

No one wants to be alone. But a good thing at the wrong time can become destructive. Dating in recovery comes down to two questions: who and when. Get them both right, and relationships become gift instead of risk.

The two hardest words for someone leaving rehab aren't "drugs" or "temptation"-they're "what now?" Long-term sobriety isn't sustained by rules alone. It requires exchange: old habits for new, old goals for new, old activities for new.

The holidays can make addiction impossible to ignore. But knowing when a program is necessary-and when it's actually possible-requires asking the right questions about both need and timing.

When the person you love enters a program, you finally have margin. For the first time in a long time, you're not fighting fires. What you do with that space matters-because they're not the only one who needs healing.

Distance hurts-whether it's miles of separation or the emotional absence of someone living under the same roof. Both situations ache deeply. But neither one is hopeless.

Friends say to quit. Family says to move on. They call you crazy for still hoping. But holding onto faith, hope, and love-the things Scripture says last forever-isn't foolish. It's foundation.

We use the word "grace" so often it loses weight. But understanding what grace actually contains-free, true, and authentic-changes how we love someone through addiction without enabling destruction.

After 26 detoxes, 6 inpatient programs, and state prison, Edgar found Shenandoah Valley Adult & Teen Challenge. Today he oversees 350 men as Disciplinarian and Intake Manager at Pennsylvania Adult & Teen Challenge.

When an addict says "you made me do this," they're using guilt as leverage. But accusation does not equal truth. You are not responsible for another person's decision to use-and you never were.

Behind the addiction epidemic, the identity confusion, and the rise of young men looking for answers in all the wrong places, there's one common thread: missing fathers.

We've been told that toxic masculinity is the problem. But the real threat isn't the strong man. It's the man with no identity, no confidence, and no one speaking into his life.

Should you wait until the struggle is over to share your story? Like a drowning person being thrown a lifejacket, sometimes testimony isn't the reward for victory-it's part of how victory comes.

Looking for a faith-based recovery program for men? Learn what Teen Challenge offers, how it works, and how to know if it's right for your son, husband, or loved one.

The church was meant to be a hospital for sinners, not a museum for saints. So why are so many believers terrified to admit they're not okay?

We have more Christian content at our fingertips than any generation in history. And it might be making us spiritually weaker, not stronger.

When we share the freedom we found in Christ from addiction, something powerful happens-not just for the person hearing it, but for us too. Testimony gives meaning to our pain and restores purpose to our story.

The things we hide hold power over us. But when we drag our struggles into the light with people we trust, shame loses its grip and real healing begins.

Teen Challenge donations fund time. Time for someone to stabilize, for truth to take root, for discipleship to form a real man or woman of God.

Church is supposed to be the safest place to struggle. So what happens when the church becomes the wound? Healing requires naming what happened, getting outside help, and the terrifying decision to trust again.

The phrase "once an addict, always an addict" gets repeated so often it's treated like settled fact. But what does that statement actually do to someone trying to rebuild their life-and does it line up with Scripture?

Courtney went from 23 felony charges and a jail cell to freedom. Her story proves God can restore what addiction destroys.

A complete guide for families supporting someone through addiction. Learn what actually helps, when treatment is needed, how to set boundaries, and what real recovery looks like.

After addiction destroyed his family and left him homeless, Justin called his mom and entered Teen Challenge. Now he's married with three daughters, living the life God paved for him.